It is overwhelming to feel all at once the feeling of certainty and unfamiliarity; the certainty of being here yet the lingering feeling of unfamiliarity. When I was in high school, I’ve always been excited to go to college. Little do I know that such eagerness isn’t enough to bring out the best in me, not enough to fuel me week by week. Being here in this institution after a month made me see that studying here in the first place already speaks for a lot of things, hence, the challenge lies of making the stay here fruitful. Here are the 5 lessons that I’m always reminding myself as I face not only the academic challenges, but also the role of being an Iskolar.
Take things at your own pace.
Nothing’s wrong with taking things at your own pace; true enough, college isn’t a race. The honor student who you used to be in high school may be an average student in the university. Doubts, pressure, and failures are inevitable but you must not let it eat you up. You must not allow yourself to be affected by other people whom you feel is performing better than you; keep in mind that the only competitor you have is no other than yourself – and you being here, is more than enough reason to pick yourself up again.
Always come to class prepared.
Every time you wake up each morning, you don’t have an exact idea of what will happen in your day – just like college! It is a whole new world compared to high school. It is not a place where lessons are spoon fed nor where deadlines and exams are always reminded. Hence, being responsible, attentive, and aware are just some of the skills that you need to sharpen. Doing so can bring out the best in you! Better take things seriously than to regret it at the end.
Learn how to balance.
Academics, family, social life, and mental health: these are just some of the things that needs to be balanced throughout your life. It might sound simple, but apparently, as you grow older, one aspect tends to be more demanding hence leading to a one aspect thet is somehow being overlooked. Time management, therefore, is essential. Knowing which aspect you need to focus on is the key for your success not only in one aspect but generally, in life.
Get out from your comfort zones.
College is like an eye opener to life’s realities. One might be even surprised with how diverse the people are here. Therefore, maximize the time you have while you are here! Learning and meeting people in college doesn’t end with the four corners of your classroom. There are lot of opportunities that you can grab in the university alone. Build strong relationships with your first classmates, attend seminars or film-showings, know different organizations that fits your interest and the likes. Not only it will widen your connections but it will also pave way for your personal growth.
Allot time for yourself.
Last but not the least, find time for yourself. College life is truthfully draining but all the efforts you have given would be meaningless if you let it actually drain you. Don’t forget to take a break whenever you need to; take naps, watch a movie, eat your comfort food, play your sport, breath! Nothing is more important than securing your health, because for whom is this success after all? For you.
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